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Notes On Mental Health

The Private Matters Psychotherapy Blog

Marleen writes about the things that matter most in psychotherapy today.

  • An Indigenous mother sits on a couch in a softly lit living room, resting her hand against her forehead while her child plays in the background.

    Burnout in High-Functioning Moms

    You’re managing the schedules, the emotions, the logistics, the work.
    From the outside, it looks like you’re handling it.
    So why does your body feel constantly tired or on edge?

    Marleen Filimon

  • A person sits calmly in a softly lit therapy office, appearing grounded and reflective in a warm, professional setting.
    A calm, grounded moment in trauma-informed therapy where safety and nervous system regulation come first.

    How Trauma Shows Up in the Body

    (And Why It’s Not “All in Your Head”)

    Stress doesn’t always stay in your thoughts. Sometimes it settles in your chest, your jaw, or the tension you can’t quite shake.

    Understanding how trauma affects the body can change how you make sense of what you’re feeling, and what might actually help.

    Marleen Filimon

  • A client sits calmly on a teal couch during a therapy session, holding a notebook, while a therapist listens in the foreground.
    Trauma therapy begins with understanding readiness, not rushing the process.

    How to Know If You’re Ready for Trauma Therapy

    Many people are curious about trauma therapy, and just as many wonder if they’re ready.

    They may worry about opening things up too quickly, becoming overwhelmed, or making things worse instead of better. Others wonder whether they should be “more stable” first, or whether waiting means avoiding something important.

    These questions aren’t a problem.
    They’re often a sign of good self-awareness.

    Trauma therapy isn’t about pushing yourself before you’re ready. It’s about understanding what your nervous system can handle, and getting the right support at the right time.

    Marleen Filimon

  • mother dropping son off at school bus

    Back-to-School Stress in Halton

    September brings excitement and change, but also stress for many families.

    From rushed mornings to new routines, the shift can feel overwhelming.

    You’re not alone in this.

    Marleen Filimon

  • client and therapist chatting

    What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session

    Your first therapy session doesn’t begin with a spotlight on you or a demand to share your deepest struggles. It starts with something much simpler: a welcome, a conversation, and the space to take a breath.

    Many people arrive feeling a mix of curiosity and nerves. What if I don’t know what to say? What if I cry? What if therapy doesn’t work for me? These questions are more common than you might think, and part of the first session is easing those worries.

    Marleen Filimon

  • A person in a yellow outfit enjoys wine with a fluffy dog, surrounded by art, grapes, and lemons in a modern room.

    What Is Self-Compassion?

    Self-compassion is the ability to look at your own physical and emotional distress, realizing that you are experiencing some form of human suffering, and asking yourself, what do I need in this moment to make my suffering less?

    Marleen Filimon

  • Nine people in colorful sweaters smile in a tastefully decorated room with blue walls and ornate lighting fixtures.

    Canadian Mental Health Professionals

    In Canada, mental health support is provided by professionals with different qualifications, training paths, and legal scopes of practice.  Here we explain each profession in a straightforward way, with a focus on how these roles are defined in Ontario.

    Marleen Filimon

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